How does one succeed in life?

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

What type of narcissist cheats more and gets pleasure out of hurting you, even if they're married?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

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How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

When Trump blames DEI, isn't he just saying "it must be because there's black or brown people involved"?

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

In the TV show Supernatural, why is God portrayed as cruel?

Ask yourself:

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

My ex got into a relationship within 2 weeks after a breakup. What should I do?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

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Does not procrastinate.

Procrastinates a lot.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

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Living to your full potential is a goal.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

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Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

I gave him everything. He said he loved me. Why?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

What I need from you?

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That's it for today.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

If my heart stopped beating, would I have enough energy to walk out into the other room 20 ft away before I passed out and died?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Making more friends is a goal.

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Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

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Do not set goals—set systems.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.